THATS RIGHT FOLKS, I FINALLY TOLD LEROY ABOUT MY GASTRIC BYPASS PLANS. HE OF COURSE GAVE ME THE REACTIONS I TOTALLY THOUGHT HE WOULD. "HOW MUCH IS IT GONNA COST ME? WHY DON'T YOU JUST EXERCISE MORE? YOU KNOW THAT IS IS GONNA MESS YOU UP EVEN MORE?? " SO AFTER MY FEABLE ATTEMPTS TO MAKE HIM SEE MY WAY, HE ENDED OUR CONVERSATION WITH "I HATE THIS IDEA, IT BETTER NOT COST ME ANYTHING AND I GUESS ILL SUPPORT YOU SINCE I HAVE NO REAL CHOICE.". SO FOLKS, I DID WHAT I HAD TO DO, I TOLD HIM, HEARD HIM OUT AND I AM STILL DOING WHAT IS RIGHT FOR ME. SO MY PLANS ON HAVING THE SURGERY ARE GOING FORWARD. I AM DOING THIS FOR ME AND MY HEALTH SO THAT I CAN BE A HEALTHIER PERSON FOR ME AND OF COURSE THEM. I AM NOT REAL SURE WHY I WAS SCARED TO TALK TO HIM ABOUT IT AND WAITED SO LONG TO TELL HIM BUT NOW THAT I HAVE THAT WEIGHT OFF OF MY SHOULDERS I CAN GO FORWARD WITH NO GUILT.
HONESTLY FOLKS, LEROY IS NOT A BAD PERSON, OR A BAD HUSBAND, HE IS JUST STUCK ON WHAT HE BELIEVES AND AS NEVER HAD A WEIGHT ISSUE SO HE JUST CAN'T UNDERSTAND MY SITUATION. LEROY HAS HAD BLINDERS ON ALL HIS LIFE. IF IT DOESN'T DIRECTLY AFFECT HIM, HURT HIM OR SOMETHING OF THAT NATURE HE JUST HAS NO CLUE!!! WELL TO EACH ITS OWN!!! I LOVE HIM COMPLETELY AND HOPE THAT HE WILL SEE ME THRU THIS DECISION I AM MAKING.
WELL NOW THAT I HAVE BORED YOU WITH MY "POUR YOUR HEART SAPPY STORY", I WILL BRING THIS TO A CLOSE. TAKE CARE AND HAVE A GREAT DAY!!! I NOW KNOW THAT I WILL!!!!
ROCK ON,
JENNIFER :)
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5 comments:
I'm so proud of you!! You've taken a big step telling Leroy. Give him time he may surprise you and come around and support you 100%. If he doesn't, I'll come beat him up for you, LOL.
Love ya
I'm glad you finally told Leroy. I'm sure it makes you feel better about the surgery. Good Luck and keep smiling. If he doesn't support you there is a lot of us ladies out here praying and pulling for you. :)
I totally agree with Liz. He will and does support you. I think he just has a different way of supporting it. At least you have told him now so that when the surgery date gets here he will have had time to "digest" it! I'm so proud of you for going through with it and taking care of yourself. You have to take care of YOU FIRST before you can take care of them.
Jen, I am so proud that you told Leroy. I understand a little where you're coming from. It took me a few weeks before I told my dh about the wiki with Steff.....I was afraid he'd make remarks about not finishing what i started and stuff like that. So, after I'd been with it for a while, I started mentioning it more and more. Now, he knows when weigh-ins are and wants to know how I did. So, I'll say a prayer that Leroy comes around and starts being a little more interested and a lot more supportive!!
YOu already know what I think!!! I am glad you told him so all I want to say is GRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR!!!!!
hugs luv ya!!!
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